Reuben BOSTWICK

Birth:
2 Sep 1734
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Death:
16 Jul 1813
Newton Falls, Ohio
Marriage:
27 May 1761
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Sources:
GENEALOGY OF THE BOSTWICK FAMILY IN AMERICA: The Descendants of Arthur Bostwick of Stratford, Conn., pages 144-147
Notes:
                   (Extended history of Reuben Bostwick's children, pages 145-147.)
In connection with the death of five of Reuben Bostwick's children within a few days, th e following story is copied from a manuscript written by Electa, the eldest daughter.
A few months before her death Lois was often found with her book in her hand reading an d talking with Electa about dying.  One day she said, 'I believe there will be sickness in ou r family, before long, and I believe that I shall be sick and shall die, and one of the famil y will die and be buried with me, but which of them I cannot tell'.
Electa asked, 'Will I be sick?'  She said, 'I believe you will, but I don't think you wil l die'.  Then she said to Electa, 'How will it make you feel if Ishould die and Reuben, Ezra , Almon and Mabel?'
Not long after this she related to Electa that she awoke in the night and 'lay awake som e time, and heard a knocking at the chamber door.  At first it knocked three times; the secon d time twice.  Then a light appeared in the chamber for a quarter of an hour, which exceede d daylight, and then vanished away'.
A night or two after this she related:  'I dreamed that a man came to me and taking my han d, led me into another which appeared lighter, then into a third room which was very light, a nd the pleasantest I ever saw; then he led me into a fourth room, which wxceeded all the res t in brightness.
Then I was led up four steps which appeared to lead to a high mountain; when we stopped th e man said, 'Look down and see hell.' and I saw it, for it looked terrible, and I heard the d readful crying of them that were there.  While beholding this, I saw a man pitch headlong dow n into the lake of fire'.
Electa asked if she knew him.  She said, 'No, but I thought I had seen him in our meeting- house'.  'Then I was led along until I came to the gates of heaven, and I saw all the glory , exceeding all that I had ever seen, and I heard the singing, which exceeded all the musi c I ever heard.  And I heard the words they sang, but I have forgotten them.  Then I though t of Dada and Mama, and all of the family, and wished they were all with me.  then I asked th e man if I might go into heaven.  He said 'Not yet, but before long you may.'  The man said , 'I shall let go of your hand and you will awake,' and I did, and was sorry to part with hi m for he was the pleasantest man I ever saw, and he talked with me all the time he led me b y the hand.  When I awoke out of sleep I could not help feeling of my hand with my other hand , and I thought it felt warm'.  A little while after tis, one evening, Lois desired to go wit h Electa to Mr. Platt's to see them.  Electa was not willing to go, but Lois urged, saying sh e did not think she should ever go there again unless she went that evening, and she wished t o see them once more.  They went, and stayed about two hours at Mr. Platt's, and, on their wa y home, Lois said, 'I believe Almon and Mabel will be sick when we get home'. Electa asked he r why she thought so, but she only replied, 'I don't like to tell you now.'  When they reache d the two children were sick, and Lois said, 'Did I not tell you they would be sick?'  Elect a asked , 'What made you think so?'  She replied, 'I almost knew they would be, and they cert ainly will die'.
The children Almon and Mabel were taken sick on the 2d day of January, 1777, and they bot h died on the 14h of the same month, at which time Electa, Lois, Reuben and Ezra were sick .  Lois was asleep when Mabel died, and when she awoke Electa asked her if she knew Mabel wa s dead. She said, 'No, is she?'  Electa said, 'Are you not sorry?'  She replied 'No, why sho uld I be sorry, for they are better off than you or I, for they are both in heaven now, an d I think it will not be long before I shall be with them.'
Almon and Mabel were both buried in one coffin.
Some time before these two children were sick, they got up in the morning and told their mo ther that some one knocked on the bedroom door in the night four or five times.
Their mother told them it could not be for the doors were all fastened.  They said it wa s somebody, and that, they said that if they should be sick, they would die.
When they were sick, and one died, the other asked to go with her, and did not want to liv e here.
Lois and Ezra died on the 18th of January, 1777, and Reuben on the 20th, two days later .  Lois was in her eleventh year, Reuben in his eighth, Ezra in his seventh, almon in his fou rth, and Mabel in her second.
                  
Mabel RUGGLES
Birth:
29 Apr 1736
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Chr:
11 Jul 1736
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Death:
15 Jun 1804
New York
Father:
Blocked
Mother:
Blocked
Sources:
GENEALOGY OF THE BOSTWICK FAMILY IN AMERICA: The Descendants of Arthur Bostwick of Stratford, Conn., pages 144-147
Children
Marriage
1
Benjamin Ruggles BOSTWICK
Birth:
5 Sep 1762
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Death:
 
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2
Electa BOSTWICK
Birth:
1 Dec 1764
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Death:
 
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3
Reuben BOSTWICK
Birth:
24 Apr 1769
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Death:
20 Jan 1777
 
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4
Ezra BOSTWICK
Birth:
26 Oct 1770
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Death:
18 Jan 1777
 
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5
Almon BOSTWICK
Birth:
4 Jul 1773
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Death:
14 Jan 1777
 
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6
Mabel BOSTWICK
Birth:
30 Nov 1775
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Death:
14 Jan 1777
 
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7
Lois BOSTWICK
Birth:
15 Nov 1777
New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut
Death:
 
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Reuben Bostwick - Mabel Ruggles

Reuben Bostwick was born at New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut 2 Sep 1734. His parents were Nathaniel Bostwick and Esther Hitchcock.

He married Mabel Ruggles 27 May 1761 at New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut . Mabel Ruggles was born at New Milford, Litchfield, Connecticut 29 Apr 1736 .

They were the parents of 7 children:
Benjamin Ruggles Bostwick born 5 Sep 1762.
Electa Bostwick born 1 Dec 1764.
Reuben Bostwick born 24 Apr 1769.
Ezra Bostwick born 26 Oct 1770.
Almon Bostwick born 4 Jul 1773.
Mabel Bostwick born 30 Nov 1775.
Lois Bostwick born 15 Nov 1777.

Reuben Bostwick died 16 Jul 1813 at Newton Falls, Ohio .

Mabel Ruggles died 15 Jun 1804 at New York .