Loyal DURAND

Birth:
31 Mar 1868
Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi
Death:
3 Oct 1937
Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi
Marriage:
6 Oct 1898
St. Sylvanus Chapel/Nashotah, Waukesha Co., Wi
Sources:
Crutcher.FTW
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S.R. Durand, on his father, Loyal Durand:
[My] dad's father Loyal Root Durand died when Dad was only three and a half years old, and his brother Samuel Benjamin Durand only one year old.  Dad's mother, Maria Elizabeth (McVickar) Durand, inherited $60,000 in life insurance on her husband's death, and thus was able to build a home for herself and her boys adjacent to that of her widowed father, at what was then 591 Cass Street, just south of Juneau Avenue, in Milwaukee.  Her father, Dr. Benjamin Moore McVickar, owned an entire city block bounded by Van Buren, Cass, and State Streets, and Juneau Avenue. He was a great horticulturist with extensive gardens and orchards on his property, and employed several gardeners.  He died in 1883, when Dad was 15 years old.
My father as a young boy had many hobbies and interests.  In 1878, when he was 10 years old, his mother took him and his brother east for the summer to visit relatives, and he had a small autograph book in which many relatives wrote and signed notes for him.  This started him on collecting autographs of prominent men, and in the next years he acquired a book full of them, including several presidents, cabinet members, senators and congressmen, explorers, etc.  I have a paper my father wrote about a visit to Central Park in New York, a very good description by a 10-year-old of the park and the people who frequented it. For several years as a boy my father also collected postage stamps from all over the world, corresponding and trading stamps with other boys.  In 1884, when he was 16, he was editor and publisher of a boys' bi-monthly magazine called The Vignette.  This was an amateur publication, one of eight put out by groups of boys in Milwaukee.  In July of 1884 the National Amateur Press Association held its convention in Milwaukee, with boys attending from all over the country.  In the baseball game between the East and West on July 10, 1884, the West won by a score of 24 to 14, with my father playing center field and later second base on the victorious team.  He also wrote an account of the convention. Dad as a young boy attended the Cathedral School, a private boys' school of St. John's Episcopal Cathedral.  He went later on to the old Milwaukee High School, from which he graduated in 1886.
He entered the University of Wisconsin in Madison in the fall of that year.  In high school he had been captain of a cadet company organized and drilled by General Charles King, a retired veteran of the Civil War. In college, he maintained this interest in military affairs, and during his four years in Madison became captain of the Univeristy Military Corps.  He joined the Sigma Chi social fraternity in the days before fraternities had living quarters.  Dad was a good athlete, standing 6'4 tall and weighing 180 pounds.  During his college years he played first base for a time on the baseball team, and he was captain and number one player of the tennis team. When Dad's brother entered the University of Wisconsin in 1887, his mother gave up her home in Milwaukee and bought a home at the bend on Langdon Street in Madison.  This enabled her to economize somewhat in providing college educations for her two sons, as well as providing a home for them during their university years.  Her home became a meeting place for the Sigma Chis, and a place where many parties and dances were held.
My father studied law at the University of Wisconsin, and became a member of the Phi Delta Phi legal fraternity.  In his senior year in the law school, he wa svery sick with pneumonia for a long time and was therefore unable to graduate with his Mighty '90 class in June of 1890.  He completed his legal education and recieved his L.L.D. degree in 1891, but he always considered himself a member of the 1890 class, with whom he reunited periodically over the years.  He was admitted to the bar in 1892, and then remained in Madison for a year in the office of Burr W. Jones, a Justice of the State Supreme Court.  Upon returning to Milwaukee, Dad joined the law firm of Miller, Noyes, Miller and Wahl, remaining with this firm until 1897.  During those recession years of the United States' economy, there was practically no opportunity for a young lawyer to get established.  Dad often laughed about some of his early legal experiences, such as trying to collect rents at saloons.  These instances sometimes necessitated his using good judgment in making a hasty retreat, with the saloon-keeper and several patrons at his heels.
In 1897 my father borrowed money and purchased the general insurance agency of Alfred James, who disposed of his agency in order to join his father, who was president of the Northwestern National Insurance Company.  Soon after entering the general insurance business my father became the representative of about a dozen fire insurance companies, and also became the general agent in Wisconsin for the Employers' Liability Assurance Corporation, Ltd., of London.  He wrote the first employers' liability insurance policies for this company in the United States.  He established agencies in about a dozen cities in Wisconsin, and for about forty years until his death managed this large business. He quickly became a recognized leader among insurance men, and in the early 1900's was a director for twleve years and president for three of the Board of Milwaukee Fire Underwriters.  He was a director for six years and president for one of the Wisconsin Association of Insurance Agents.  His office for many years was in the old Marine Bank building at Mitchell and North Water Streets.  In about 1915 he moved his office to the Wells Building on East Wisconsin Avenue.  It included a large part of the second floor.  After 1930, his office was on the eighth floor of this building.
When I was very young, I can remember vividly sitting under a large oak tree on our front lawn on late summer afternoons, waiting for my father to come home on his bicycle.  We children were always very excited to see him come around the corner from Lafayette Place into Lake Drive and ride the block and a quarter to our home.  He had a fine bicycle, a type I've never seen since, for instead of a chain between the pedaling sprocket wheel and the back wheel, it had enclosed gears and a transmission rod.  When Dad bought our first automobile in 1910, he abandoned his bicycle, which I at the age of 12 attempted to ride without tires, and badly bruised and scraped my knees and arms as a result.
Several of Dad's friends in the years between 1910 and 1930 walked the couple of miles downtown to their offices.  Each morning with good weather Dad would wait at a parlor window after breakfast until he saw the group coming down Lake Drive, when he would leave the house to join them.  Usually in the evenings, Mother would drive down to get him; later when my brother and I had learned to drive at high school age, we took turns picking him up at about 6pm at his office. Upon returning from work, my father was always eager for some playing with his children, usually with my brother and me.  Mostly we played catch with baseball mitts and a hard baseball, and Dad got a big kick out of throwing the ball as fast as he could at me.  As a result, I was a star player on my grade school team, and on a neighborhood team that played in the Milwaukee Journal League (something like the Little League of today). Unfortunately, baseball was not played in high school then, so I turned to tennis and became the state interscholastic champion, with Dad's help and encouragement.
Dad, upon returning to Milwaukee after his university days, had helped to establish the Town Club, which had five tennis courts.  The Wisconsin State Tennis Championships were played at this club in August of each year, and this was the prime social event of the summer season. Dad won the state singles championship several times, and also the doubles championship many times, playing with his good friend Robert McMinn.  About 1910, upon joining the Fox Point Country Club, he gave up tennis for golf and became a good player at this sport, usually shooting within ten strokes over par.  In addition to playing tennis and golf, Dad was a great gardener, and each summer cultivated a large backyard garden of flowers and vegetables. My father loved outdoor activities, but he was noted also as an expert bridge player.  He played bridge several times a week, usually after lunching at the University Club or the Milwaukee Athletic Club.  Groups of men always gathered behind his chair to watch his skill in playing and bidding bridge hands.  Also, many Saturday evenings during the wintertime, he played Skat, a German card game; usually he played with my uncles Charles Lemon and Seldon Sperry, a Mr. Williams, and a Mr. Booth.  Frequently, after dinners at home during the week, we played card games or other games as a family, and sometimes Dad and I played chess.
After the First World War, Mother and Dad became even more adventurous.  We made several motor trips east to Niagara Falls, and to visit Dad's three aunts, Jane and Louise Durand and Hannah Gould, in Rochester, New York, and several Durand cousins there who were all most hospitable to us.  We drove on other trips to Jamestown, Washington, Gettysburg, Valley Forge, and Philadelphia to see many historic places, since Dad's great interest was American history.  We visited New York City, where Dad had meetings with the executives of various insurance companies he represented in Wisconsin.  We visited many historic places in New England and the old Durand farm homesteads in Berlin and Derby, Connecticut.  In Boston, Dad conferred on each trip with the executives of the Employers Liability Insurance Corporation, for which he was the general agent for Wisconsin. These trips were made when long distances had to be traveled over dusty gravel roads, and when we often had to stay in miserable small-town hotels, since it was before the days of concrete highways and modern motels.  Mother was a mighty good sport to make these trips of several weeks' duration, for she did not, I am sure, enjoy them nearly as much as Dad did.
Each summer from the time I was about 7 until about 16 years of age, we spent several weeks in the country in cottages rented on one of the lakes west of Milwaukee...my father spent the week in Milwaukee, where his mother with the servants maintained our home, and would arrive in the country early Saturday afternoon.  At that time, his large office with many employees worked from 8:30am to 6pm each day, and on Saturdays until 1pm. My father's service in public life was outstanding.  He gave generously of his time and talents, at a considerable sacrifice to his health and his business interests, over many years. He entered public life in 1919 by being pesuaded to accept and appointment to the Milwaukee Board of Education.  The following year he became president of this board, responsible for the school system of Milwaukee,  and he was president again in 1924, 1925, and 1926.  He was re-elected and served on the school boardfor fourteen years, until 1933, when he declined to run again.  I remember so many, many subzero winter evenings when right after dinner, he left for committee or board meetings, and did not return until after midnight.  Dad served, too, as a trustee of the Milwaukee Public Library from 1920 through 1926, and as president of that board in 1924 and 1925.  One advantage of this service was that he brought home books for a few days before they were selected for circulation; he enjoyed in particular reading books on international politics, history, and biographies of well-known men.
Another board my father served on in the 1920's was the Milwaukee Auditorium Board. Besides Dad's great interest and service in public life in Milwaukee, he served the University of Wisconsin in several capacities from 1919 until 1933.  He was appointed by the Alumni Association in 1919 as their representative on the Board of Visitiors, an advisory board to the board of Regents.  In 1924 he was president of this board.  He made frequent visits to Madison, where he conferred with the heads of various departments and many other professors on the needs of the University, and presented his recommendations through the Board of Visitors for action by the Regents.  In 1922, he became a director of the University Alumni Association; he was its vice-president from 1928 until 1932, when he withdrew, at a time when his health necessitated reducing demands on his energy. During my father's most active business years he became a director of several Milwaukee manufacturing companies.  His investments in insurance companies he represented, such as the Continental Corp., the Home Insurance Co. (later part of City Investing Co.), and the Northwestern National Insurance Co. (later the NN Corp.) were all successful. However, he had bad luck during the 1929 to 1933 depression period with investments in two local companies, a farm loan mortgage company, and in some railroad stocks.  But at the time of his death in 1937, he left an estate to mother of over $100,000, which enabled her to have a comfortable income for the rest of her life.  Dad's prominence in business and education resulted in his biography being included in Who's Who in the Midwest.
My father's health began to fail about 1935, but he kept up an active social and business life until his death at the age of 69 from heart trouble on October 3, 1937.  An account of his life in the Encyclopaedia of American Biography, 1938[?], concludes by quoting an editorial that was printed in the Milwaukee Journal a day after his death as follows:
'Public Education and Library - these were the[four] words that Loyal Durand wrote when asked to provide some data on the many activities of his long career in Milwaukee.  They come back to us now, with his passing, as an indication of what he thought was worthwhile.  In them, we get an index to his life and the contribution he made to his city and state. Always it was education - forthe children, for the middle-aged, for those who had passed the prime of life but still wanted to improve their knowledge - through the public school system from kindergarten to the university, through such agencies as the public library - always it was education, the spread of knowledge, that counted in the life of Loyal Durand. ...In his quiet, evenly-balanced way, he had a marked influence on each institution with which he came into contact.  In the public school system he was looking ahead always to wider service for children. He stood by the university and its young people when the institution was attacked.  To him, youth was sound and he refused to see cause for alarm.  But he did see cause for apprehension whenever funds were lessened, or an educational institution departed from the path of widest service to all children.  And he was quick to say so. Loyal Durand did many other things - good things - in connection with business and civic organizations.  That was part of his workday life.  But his heart was always with the schools.  We have a better public school system, a better university, and a better public library because he lived.'
The funeral service for my father was a very large one, attended by many personal friends of the family, business friends, and public officials. His remains were buried in the Durand family plot in Forest Home Cemetery in Milwaukee. Dad was a wonderful father to me, always interested in my success in school work, and always eager to participate in sports and games with me when I was a young boy.  He was deeply devoted to Mother and to all his four children, and he had many close personal friends who admired him greatly.
I, for my part, know that Bampo was a proud inheritor of his father's staunchly Republican political affiliations.  In a letter from the early 1980's, Bampo related to my father's proudly Republican distant cousin Theodore Roosevelt Wood that his father had indeed met Teddy Roosevelt.  In fact, he wrote, Loyal Durand was very near Roosevelt when the candidate was shot by a would-be assassin; Roosevelt escaped unharmed, as the bullet lodged in a thick stack of papers he had folded in his breast pocket. Also, I recall Bampo's relatin
                  
Lucia Relf KEMPER
Birth:
28 Dec 1871
Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi
Death:
19 Jun 1969
Glendale, Wi
Father:
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Mother:
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Sources:
Crutcher.FTW
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Bampo, as my grandfather Samuel Relf Durand was called, wrote the following about his mother in his big book of biographical sketches of his ancestors:
My mother, Lucia Relf Kemper, was born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin on December 28, 1871, [the eleventh of her parents' twelve children].  Her girlhood was spent at her parents' home in Milwaukee and at their summer home 'Cedarly' on Upper Nebahbin Lake, about thirty miles west of Milwaukee.  This lovely summer home was set in cedar woods overlooking the lake.  It was close to Nashotah House Episcopal Seminary and to Bishopstead, where her grandfather Bishop Jackson Kemper lived before his death in 1870.  My mother's great love of flowers, birds and the beauties of nature  must have been fostered by having lived in the country part of the time when a child.  Most years, the family moved in the wintertime [back] to Milwaukee where mother's father, Samuel Relf Kemper, was engaged in the produce commission business.  In the summertime, my grandfather commuted by train from Milwaukee to Nashotah station where mother's older brothers would meet him, with horse and carriage, for the drive to their home.  My mother's mother and several older sisters taught her at home when she was a young girl.  I have some drawings she made of flowers and fruit when she was ten years  which are exceptionally well done for a small child.
When about thirteen years of age, she was sent to Kemper Hall in Kenosha, Wisconsin.  This Episcopal boarding school for girls was named for her grandfather.  She was a fine student and won various prizes for scholarship in literature, French, and mathematics.  She maintained a great interest in English and French literature and in poetry all of her life as a result of her fine education.
My mother's mother died of cancer in March [of] 1890 when the family were spending that particular winter in a rented home in Wauwatosa, a suburb west of Milwaukee.  Due to my grandmother's precarious health that winter, doctors had recommended not staying in their city home on Prospect Avenue on the bluff overlooking Lake Michigan.  Mother was just eighteen years old at the time.  She graduated from Kemper Hall a year later, in June, 1891.  After completing her education she worked for a time in a government office in Milwaukee on public health work, which required [her] using a microscope many hours a day.
Mother was a very beautiful young lady, and much admired.  Her brother, Poyntell Kemper, was a Sigma Chi fraternity brother of my father's at the University of Wisconsin in Madison. Mother and [her] friends had occasionally been invited to fraternity parties in Madison, where my father was living during his college years - his mother having given up her home in Milwaukee to have a home in Madison while her two sons were in college there.  Also, my grandmother spent summers with her two sons at Nashotah Lake, renting a home on the Nashotah Seminary grounds.  So, my father and mother became devoted to each other in the early years of the 1890s.  However, after graduating from the University of Wisconsin Law School in 1891, due to the difficulty my father had in trying to get established at this time in a large law firm in Milwaukee on account of the business depression of 1893-1896, they were engaged to be married for four and one-half years before my father was in a position to support both a wife and a widowed mother.  Dad's father had died when he was only three and one-half years old, and his mother's inheritance was about gone at the time Dad and his brother completed college.
My mother and father were married on October 6, 1898 in St. Sylvanus Chapel at Nashotah.  Her brother-in-law, Rev. James Slidell, officiated at the marriage service, and her brother, Rev. Poyntell Kemper, performed the betrothal ceremony.  The wedding reception took place outdoors on the lawns of my grandfather's Cedarly country home, it being a beautiful warm autumn day.  It was a large wedding and reception, for Dad and Mother had many friends and relatives.
They were a handsome couple, mother being about 5'4 tall, with light blond hair and blue eyes.  Dad was 6'4 tall, with dark hair and brown eyes. They had a honeymoon trip in the East, where they visited many relatives.  On returning to Milwaukee, they set up housekeeping in a rented home on Racine Street.  Their house was about one block north of a home rented by Dad's mother, which was in a group of houses called the Ogden Row, on Ogden Avenue, near Farwell Avenue.  Mother and Dad made several trips to the East in the early years of their marriage.  In a letter I have dated February 27, 1901 from the Raleigh Hotel in Washington D.C., my mother wrote to her father of visits she and Dad had had with friends and relatives in Washington, Baltimore, and Norfolk, and planned to spend a few days in Philadelphia and New York.  She also wrote of having seen portraits of Colonel and Mrs. Daniel Kemper in the Corcoran Art Gallery, and also several portraits of relatives from the Sitgreaves, Morton, and Quincy families.
My brother Loyal Jr.. born July 12, 1902, I born March 12, 1904, and my oldest sister Lucia born March 13, 1906 all came into the world while Mother and Dad lived on Racine Street in Milwaukee.  My [paternal] grandmother [Maria Elizabeth McVickar] came to live with us when we moved into the Lake Drive home [in 1906], and Dad became her sole support, since his brother, Samuel Benjamin Durand, had died in 1900.  Also, a nurse, Mrs. McGuire (Guire, as we called her) took care of the children for many years; and there was always a staff of servants, consisting of a cook and two maids, who lived in the house, as well as a laundress and seamstress who came for two days each week.
Mother, besides managing our home, was a very social person who loved to be with her many friends, and her married sisters.  In reading some old diaries of hers, I was surprised to find that almost every day she had some sort of social engagement.  There were frequent 'sisters meetings' when my Aunt Sally (Mrs. James Slidell), Aunt Mary (Mrs. Charles Lemon), Aunt Sue (Mrs. Selden Sperry) and Aunt Sophy (Mrs. Frederick Best) would meet for afternoon tea and, if at our house, we children had to come in to pay our respects. For many years, Mother was on the Board and President of the Episcopal  St. John's Home for the Aged.  She was a devout christian, and active in the work of the auxiliaries of St. Paul's Episcopal Church.  Additionally, she was a member for 69 years of the Women's Club of Wisconsin, where she served on many committees.  From 1945 to 1947, after Dad's death, she was President of this large club of several hundred members.
Dad and Mother belonged to a family social club, the Town Club, which had five clay tennis courts, four bowling alleys, and in winter an excellent ice rink on the tennis courts.  Dad won many trophies in tennis and bowling tournaments, but Mother mostly enjoyed ice skating and dances at this club.  When I was about thirteen she taught me to play tennis, a game that I loved and excelled in for many years.
Dad bought our first automobile in 1910, a Cross-Country Rambler made by the Nash Company of Kenosha, Wisconsin (later the American Motors Company).  At that time it was most unusual for a woman to drive a car, and most of Mother's friends who had cars either drove battery-operated 'electrics' at a top speed of about 12 m.p.h.., or had chauffeurs to drive gasoline engine cars.  However, Mother was determined that there was no reason why she should not drive our car, and she rather astounded her friends by learning to drive.  She drove her own car for more than 50 years, until she was 90 years old.  When we were small children, she drove us in bad weather in the early morning to the grade school of the Milwaukee State Teachers College (now the University of Wisconsin in Milwaukee), which was more than a mile north of our home.
In good weather in the spring, summer, and fall, Mother and Dad were fond of driving in the the country on Sundays and taking picnics.  We stopped often in Delafield, thirty miles west of our home, to see Mother's oldest brother, Jackson Kemper, [who was] an invalid, and his sweet little wife, Aunt Helen. Quite often, too, we stopped in for tea in the afternoons at the summer homes of various friends on the nice small inland lakes, about twenty to thirty miles west of Milwaukee.
During the First World War, from 1914 to 1918, Mother worked very hard in Red Cross activities, preparing bandages and clothing.  She was in charge of a large group of volunteer ladies doing this work.  She contributed to the care of several French war orphans, and corresponded with soldiers at the front.  She was a member of the Alliance Francaise, and enjoyed talking and reading in the French language with several friends.  For a short time in early 1918, her health was poor, and she took my two sisters with her to Summersville, North Carolina.  They stayed in an inn near to where her sister, Gertrude, and her husband Samuel Hall had a home.  In April, Dad took me and my brother to Washington to meet Mother and my sisters on their return trip.
After the First World War, Mother and Dad became even more adventurous.  We made several motor trips east to many different landmarks and relatives' houses.  These trips were made when long distances had to be traveled over dusty gravel roads, and when we often had to stay in miserable small-town hotels, since it was before the days of concrete highways and modern motels.  Mother was a mighty good sport to make these trips of several weeks' duration, for she did not, I am sure, enjoy them nearly as much as Dad did.  She had to contend with four children who would get mighty tired out during some days of long, uncomfortable driving, but who nevertheless received a wonderful firsthand education on the history and geography of the eastern and midwestern parts of our country.
Mother and Dad made several trips to the south in the 1920's and early 1930's in the wintertime, sometimes going by train and other times driving.  On these trips they visited friends in Florida, and also spent a few days with another brother of Mother's, Lewis Kemper, and his wife in Hendersonville, NC. Each summer from the time I was about 7 until about 16 years of age, we spent several weeks in the country in cottages rented on one of the lakes west of Milwaukee.  Mother, in spite of the burden of caring for four children, enjoyed being in the country near to where several of her sisters' families and many friends had country homes.  Tea parties in the late afternoons were a daily occurrence. My father spent the week [at work] in Milwaukee...and would arrive in the country early Saturday afternoon.
Mother was always very much interested in literature, and when her children were quite young she enrolled in a correspondence course on short story writing.  She worked hard on this course, and purchased several books on the techniques or writing, and many volumes of collections of short stories.  She wrote several stories and submitted them to various magazines, and finally was successful in having a number of her stories published.  She must have felt satisfied with her accomplishment, for she never wrote any more short stories, in spite of the urging of her family and publishers to continue.  She always said that she became too involved in other activities to find time to write for publication.
Starting in 1924, one of her most cherished activities for many, many years was the work of the Colonial Dames of America.  To join this society, you had to have geneaological proof of descent from an ancestor who had been an important public servant in one of the thirteen colonies prior to the Revolutionary War.  Mother went in on the service record of her ancestor, Captain Sylvester Salisbury, who was commander of Fort Orange at Albany, NY in the mid-1600's, after the English captured New Netherlands from the Dutch.  Mother was responsible for many years for the publishing and distributing to schools of historical booklets on Wisconsin.  This practice was one of the chief sources of income for maintaining the Old Indian Agency House at Portage, Wisconsin.  She had worked very hard in the Wisconsin Society of the Colonial Dames to restore and furnish this historical house in 1932.  Mother was president of the Wisconsin Society for several years, and for many years in her old age she was honored with the title of Honorary President.  She was also honored by the National Society by election to the Roll of Honor for Distinguished Service.
After my father's death in 1937, Mother maintained her home for thirty more years, even though she had great difficulty at times in getting and keeping a satisfactory cook/housekeeper, and in maintaining such a large home.  However, she was always eager to have her home available for he married children and her grandchildren to come to whenever they could, and many happy family reunions took place over the years with Mother in her home. She made many trips to visit her families in New England, Louisville, Knoxville, and Palo Alto, California.  She also spent several weeks and month away from home. Plus, she spent many weeks and  months in various years away from her home in the wintertime. She went on cruises in the Caribbean, and around South America with a good friend, a Mrs. Williams of New York.  She spent many weeks several times with friends in Mexico, and in La Jolla and Pasadena, CA.  She also made many visits to Palo Alto, part of the time staying with us, and part of the time staying in a nice boarding home. One year when my brother, on a sabbatical leave from the University of Tennessee, was teaching at the University of Hawaii in Honolulu, Mother and my sister Glee spent some time visiting there.  In 1948, Mother made a trip to England and France with my sister Lucia.  In England, they visited Ringwood in Hampshire, where my mother's mother had been born.  Several times she went on long tours with us by car to Mexico (as far as Acapulco), to Canada and the East, and to many places in Wisconsin and California.
On the occasion of Mother's 90th birthday, we had a reception of more than 60 friends for her in her home in Milwaukee.  Many of her dearest friends of her age had died, but she was loved and admired by many more much younger friends and relatives.  She had such a keen intellect, and interest in people and current events that she was regarded as a person about twenty years younger than she actually was. Only at the age of nearly 94, in December of 1965, did she become handicapped, when she suffered a partial injury to one knee that caused her to be hospitalized for a month.  Afterward, she went to the Colonial Manor Retirement Home to recuperate.  However, due to the impossibility of getting reliable servants and nurses, it became necessary for her to stay most of the time at Colonial Manor, only getting back to her home on occasions when one of her children could spend a short time in Milwaukee with her.  She was most courageous, and generally in good spirits during the last three and a half years of her life, although suffering from various handicaps that kept her confined almost entirely to her room. Her keen intellect never left her, which was a great blessing.  Even at the age of 96, she started the study of the Spanish language, with lessons on a radio program.
Mother died June 19, 1969 in her 98th year.  A memorial service was held in St. Paul's Episcopal church, the church she had loved for more than eighty years.  Her life had been one of great devotion and loyalty to her family and friends.  She had met all the difficulties and discouragements in her long life with the greatest of courage, and had always maintained a cheerful and optimistic spirit.  She had been dearly loved and admired by all who knew her.  She was a dear, lovely, precious person.
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Education 1885
Kenosha, WI
Burial    1969
Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., WI
                  
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S.R. Durand:
One year [probably in the 1950's] when my brother, on a sabbatical leave from the University of Tennessee, was teaching at the University of Hawaii in Honolulu, Mother and my sister Glee spent some time visiting there.
As a child, Loyal Durand Jr. was nicknamed Loy by his family.
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Record Change  June 18, 1999
Graduation     1929
Madison, WI
Burial    1970
Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., WI
                  
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I feel very fortunate to report that my grandfather was, and still is, a huge figure in my mind's conception of my youth, as well as my continued progress into manhood.  I will have noted in this data that the bulk of it was gathered by Bampo, as we grandchildren always knew him. Even without the ominpresent transcriptions of his biographical portraits of his and his wife's ancestors, the volume of names, facts, and dates alone is enough to testify that his hand is on each page of this genealogy.
S.R. Durand, in his own words:
My earliest definite memory is the day August 18, 1908 when my second sister Elizabeth McVickar (always later known by her nickname Glee) was born.  My brother, sister and I had been sent early in the morning with Guire [their nurse] to a friend of the family's home, a couple of blocks north on Lake Drive, to spend the day.  We were brought home about supper time to see our new sister in a cradle beside my mother's bed.
When I was very young, I can remeber vividly sitting under a large oak tree on our front lawn on late summer afternoons, waiting for my father to come home on his bicycle.  He had a fine bicycle, a type I've never seen since, for instead of a chain between the pedaling sprocket wheel and the back wheel, it had enclosed gears and a transmission rod. When Dad bought our first automobile in 1910, he abandoned his bicycle, which I at the age of 12 attempted to ride without tires, and badly bruised and scraped my knees and arms as a result.
Dad and Mother belonged to a family social club, the Town Club, which had five clay tennis courts, four bowling alleys, and in winter an excellent ice rink on the tennis courts.  Dad won many trophies in tennis and bowling tournaments, but Mother mostly enjoyed ice skating and dances at this club.  When I was about thirteen she taught me to play tennis, a game which I loved and excelled in for many years.  Upon returning from work, my father was always eager for some playing with his children, usually with my brother and me.  Mostly we played catch with baseball mitts and a hard baseball, and Dad got a big kick out of throwing the ball as fast as he could at me.  As a result, I was a star player on my grade school team, and on a neighborhood team that played in the Milwaukee Journal League (something like the Little League of today). Unfortunately, baseball was not played in high school then, so I turned to tennis and became the state interscholastic champion, with Dad's help and encouragement.
After 1906, my grandmother [Maria Elizabeth (McVickar) Durand] came to live with us in our new house on Lake Drive, as my father was her sole means of support by then.  Among my earliest remembrances of her were the times she took me and my brother on the hour-long streetcar ride to the Soldiers' Home.  These were exciting adventures for us, because we could stand on the streetcar alongside the motorman and pretend we were helping operate it.  While my grandmother was having tea with friends including Mrs. Sharp, the wife of the commander of the home, General Sharp, we wandered about talking to old Civil War soldiers and hearing accounts from them of battles they had fought in.
My grandmother had friends come in for tea most every afternoon when we were very young.  We were allowed to come in for a cookie or a small piece of cake, and very weak tea with lots of warm milk.  Tea, when guests were invited, was served in what we called the reception room instead of in the large parlor.  This room was sort of considered my grandmother's special room until my parents purchased a piano and victrola, when we called it the music room.  When my sisters and I took piano lessons and had to practice each day, this room had the advantage that a large sliding door could be closed to partially reduce the sounds of our efforts, in struggling with the fingering of scales or playing simple compositions.
In 1912, we had made our first long tour in our car to Deerfield, Minnesota, in the iron ore country west of Duluth.  We went to the wedding of the daughter of a second cousin of Dad's, Caroline Hall, to Tracy Hale.  My sisters were flower girls at this wedding.  It took place at the summer home of Dad's cousin Alida and her husband William White, who in the wintertime lived just two blocks north of us on Lake Drive. This trip was quite an adventure, for we had many tire failures and some broken springs.  On more than one occasion, we had to be hauled out of deep ruts on sandy roads by farmers with horses.
We drove mostly with the top down, and sometimes did not get it put up and the side curtians extricated from behind the back seat and on fast enough to avoid getting drenched by sudden rainstorms.  We carried our clothes in suitcases on a rack on the side running board, since this was before the days that cars had trunks for luggage.  We returned through Sparta, Wisconsin, to stop and see Dad's old college friend, Lewis Hill, and his family.  We also stopped in Madison to see several of Dad's friends there.
For a short time in early 1918, [my mother's] health was poor, and she took my two sisters with her to Summersville, North Carolina. They stayed in an inn near to where her sister, Gertrude, and her husband Samuel Hall had a home.  In April, Dad took me and my brother to Washington to meet Mother and my sisters on their return trip.  A week in Washington at that time, during the war, was an exciting experience for a fourteen-year-old boy, particularly because my uncle George Wilson, a widower who had been the husband of mother's oldest sister Anne, took us to many historic places, army posts, government buildings, and monuments.
After the First World War, Mother and Dad became even more adventurous.  We made several motor trips east to Niagara Falls, and to visit Dad's three aunts, Jane and Louise Durand and Hannah Gould, in Rochester, New York, and several Durand cousins there who were all most hospitable to us.  We drove on other trips to Jamestown, Washington, Gettysburg, Valley Forge, and Philadelphia to see many historic places, since Dad's great interest was American history.  We visited New York City, where Dad had meetings with the executives of various insurance companies he represented in Wisconsin.  We visited many historic places in New England and the old Durand farm homesteads in Berlin and Derby, CT.
Each summer from the time I was about 7 until about 16 years of age, we spent several weeks in the country in cottages rented on one of the lakes west of Milwaukee.
...On the morning of the day Jerry and I were married, my father and mother and sister Glee had come to Kingston from Milwaukee.  My other sister Lucia and her husband, Donald Wright, had come from Cambridge [MA].  Two of Jerry's friends from her Stanford University days were also at our afternoon wedding, which was at St. John's Episcopal Church.  My uncle, Rev. Poyntell Kemper, was the rector of the church, and he married us.  After the ceremony, my uncle and aunt had a very nice reception in their home.  The next day, Jerry and I sailed for Europe on a honeymoon trip.
Upon our return from Europe we bought a car in Milwaukee and drove to California.  This was during the Great Depression, when four of every five engineers were unemployed.  My own job with the International Telephone and Telegraph Company in New York had terminated at the end of February, 1931;  their International Communications Laboratory where I had done research and development was closed, and 450 engineers were let go.  However, during several months of the previous year, I had been at the ITT plant in Palo Alto, California, supervising manufacture of 60 shipboard radio transmitters that I had designed.  Knowing that vacuum tubes were still in production for these transmitters, I got in touch with the manager of this plant.  I was told that if I came to Palo Alto, he could give me a job that would last for several months in tube manufacturing work.
We bought a three-year-old Chevrolet car for one hundred dollars, and drove via Yellowstone Park to California.  We visited Jerry's family in San Gabriel for a few days before I went to work on the 4p.m.-to-midnight shift at the plant in Palo Alto.  Just before
Christmas, a large stock of transmitter tubes had been produced, and the plant was closed and its buildings sold to the City of Palo Alto for warehousing space.  So, with me out of work again, we went to San Gabriel for Christmas with Jerry's parents and her sister Jean.
I got a job for awhile in Hollywood, and Jerry and I had a small apartment there.  Each Sunday we drove over to San Gabriel for dinner with Jerry's mother and father, and each Wednesday they came over for dinner with us.  After our meals, we enjoyed duplicate bridge, playing sixteen hands down we had previously played, and then sixteen hands up for our next session.  Jerry's mother was an expert bridge player, and enjoyed these games with us immensely.
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In 1948, Mother made a trip to England and France with my sister Lucia.  In England, they visited Ringwood in Hampshire, where my mother's mother had been born.
My great-aunt Lucia Durand was affectionately called Dit by her family during her childhood.
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My earliest definite memory is the day August 18, 1908 when my second sister Elizabeth McVickar (always later known by her nickname Glee) was born.  My brother, sister and I had been sent early in the morning with Guire [their nurse] to a friend of the
family's home, a couple of blocks north on Lake Drive, to spend the day. We were brought home about supper time to see our new sister in a cradle beside my mother's bed.
...One year [probably in the 1950's] when my brother, on a sabbatical leave from the University of Tennessee, was teaching at the University of Hawaii in Honolulu, Mother and my sister Glee spent some time visiting there.
Glee Durand, in contrast with my grandfather's reserved manner, is often first remembered for her sarcastic (and occasionally cantankerous) wit.
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Loyal Durand - Lucia Relf Kemper

Loyal Durand was born at Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi 31 Mar 1868. His parents were Loyal Root Durand and Maria Elizabeth McVickar.

He married Lucia Relf Kemper 6 Oct 1898 at St. Sylvanus Chapel/Nashotah, Waukesha Co., Wi . Lucia Relf Kemper was born at Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi 28 Dec 1871 .

They were the parents of 4 children:
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Loyal Durand died 3 Oct 1937 at Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi .

Lucia Relf Kemper died 19 Jun 1969 at Glendale, Wi .