Dr. Benjamin Moore MCVICKAR

Birth:
12 Nov 1799
New York, Ny
Death:
4 May 1883
Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi
Marriage:
12 Nov 1825
New York, Ny
Father:
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Mother:
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S.R. Durand:
[My father's grandfather] Dr. Benjamin Moore McVickar owned an entire city block bounded by Van Buren, Cass, and State Streets, and Juneau Avenue.  He was a great horticulturist with extensive gardens and orchards on his property, and employed several gardeners.  He died in1883, when Dad was 15 years old.
Benjamin Moore McVickar was born in New York City on November 12, 1799, at his parents' residence at 228 Pearl Street, then a fashionable residential part of the city.  Today, lower Manhattan is a financial - business district with many tall skyscraper buildings.  In 1801, the family moved to 231 Broadway.  Benjamin McVickar was the youngest of seven sons and two daughters of John and Ann (Moore) McVickar.  At the time of his birth, his father was one of the most eminent and wealthy merchants of New York, and a director of several insurance companies and banks.
As a young boy, Benjamin McVickar was sent to a boarding school at Greenwich, Connecticut.  One of his close friends at the school was William Whitehouse, who became the Episcopal Bishop of Illinois.  Also, for a time, Benjamin McVickar attended school at Bloomingdale, near his parents' country estate, which school was conducted by an Irishman who had been a captain in Napoleon's army.  There he learned French, which he read and spoke fluently throughout his life.
His father died in 1812, when he was only twelve years old.   At that time the family was living at No. 2 Vesey Street, having moved there from 231 Broadway.  Benjamin's mother moved back to the mansion at 231 Broadway, which later became the site of the Woolworth building, the first high skyscraper in New York.  His father left a large fortune, and Benjamin McVickar's inheritance made him well-off as a young man.  Also, his next older brother, Nathan, died in 1820 and left Benjamin his entire estate.
Benjamin studied medicine under the celebrated Dr. Valentine Mott at the old Medical College of Physicians and Surgeons, from 1816 through 1820.  He received his M.D. in 1820, and for the next three years was the House Physician in the New York Hospital, on Broadway between Duane and Anthony streets, which had been founded in 1769.  In 1824, Dr. Benjamin McVickar made a grand tour of Europe, as each of his older brothers had done.  He crossed the Atlantic on the packet ship Cadmus, on its return voyage after bringing General Lafayette to the United States in July.  He traveled extensively in Great Britain, France, Holland, and Belgium, and lived for several months at a time in both London and Paris.  A letter dated April 24, 1825 from London to his older brother, Rev. John McVickar, described plans for the founding of the University of London. Old passports, which I have, reveal that he arrived in Dieppe May 18, 1825, from England and was in Amsterdam on July 4th and Antwerp, Belgium July 11, 1825.  He was engaged to be married to Isaphene Catherine Lawrence during the year he was in Europe, and had made for them in france a set of sixty pieces each of chinaware of many sizes of plates, soup dishes, and cups and saucers, and also a large number of serving dishes and platters, all with the McVickar double-eagle crest in gold. These dishes, now [175] years old, are still being used as prized possessions of several families of his descendants.
After spending more than a year in Europe, he intended to return on the Cadmus.  However, in traveling from Brussels to Le Havre, the diligence broke down, delaying him.  He found upon arriving in Le Havre that the vessel had sailed, the captain having left a note for him saying that he had waited as long as the tide would allow.  Dr. McVickar was greatly annoyed at having missed the ship, but subsequently had reason to rejoice that he did:  after leaving France, the Cadmus was lost at sea, never to be seen or heard from again.
On November 12, 1825 [Dr. Benjamin McVickar's 26th birthday] he and Isaphene Catherine Lawrence were married by his brother, Rev. John McVickar D.D., at the home of her parents at 498 Broadway. She was the third daughter of Isaac Lawrence, who was at that time president of the United States Bank in New York, and of Cornelia Ann (Beach) Lawrence, a daughter of the retired assistant rector of Trinity Church, Rev. Abraham Beach, D.D.  Dr. Benjamin and Isaphene McVickar made their home at 496 Broadway, next door to her parents' home, and their five children were all born in this home.  They were: John Lawrence, born November 12, 1827; Cornelia Augusta, born June 19, 1829; Anna born May 7, 1832; Isaphene born September 27, 1834; and my grandmother, Maria Elizabeth born November 3, 1838.
Benjamin McVickar was a great lover of nature, fond of landscape gardening, and a very successful horticulturist.  While in Europe, he had purchased many beautifully illustrated books on plants and wildlife, and had them sent to America.  As a boy, these books fascinated me in my grandmother's collection.  After he was married, he raised in the backyard of his New York home several varieties of grapes, beautiful peaches, and was noted for his lovely roses.  Later, in 1836, when he established a country estate called Longwood, in Morrisania in Westchester County on the East River*, he sent to France and England for peach and pear trees, and had an orchard with a fine variety of fruits that had not been raised before in the vicinity. [*Morrisania is now part of the borough of the Bronx, which is no longer part of Westchester County.  Most likely the estate was on what is now called the Harlem River.]
Dr. McVickar practiced medicine with great success in New York for about 12 years.  It was said of him that in serious cases he did not fear to use heroic measures, but in general he did prescribe large doses of medicine.  He believed in strengthening rather than debilitating a patient by assisting Nature.  In the summer of 1832, he remained in the city all through the terrible cholera epidemic, devoting himself to the sick and the poor.  Over 10,000 people died in the city of New York during that fearful epidemic.
Dr. McVickar was named Benjamin Moore for Bishop Benjamin Moore, the second Episcopal bishop of New York, who was a first cousin of his mother.  By both birth and education  he was a member of the Protestant Episcopal Church, and gave liberally of his means toward its support. When first married, he was influential in forming the parish of St. Thomas in New York. While this church was being built on the corner of Broadway and Houston Streets, the new congregation met in an upper chamber over Delavan's Hardware store on the corner of Broadway and Broome Street.  He was warden of this church until 1840, when he retired to his country estate in Westchester.  There, he was a vestryman of St. Paul's Church.
Benjamin McVickar took an interest in all public enterprises calculated to advance the moral as well as the material interests of the city of New York.  He was a member of the New York Historical Society, the Society Library of the American Institute, and a founding member of the New York Club, which, I believe, is now called the Union Club.  Even though he was a modest, retiring private citizen, he always had a great interest in the city's welfare and a warm attachment to his many friends.
In 1833, his mother died, and in 1841 his father-in-law died as well.  As a result of inheritances and a successful medical practice, Dr. McVickar was very wealthy and became interested in real estate investing.  He was influential in having Broadway opened up north of 8th Street to Union Square, and he built two blocks of fine residences on the west side of Broadway from 8th to 10th Streets.  Also, in partnership with his brother-in-law Beach Lawrence, he built forty-two houses on Union Square.  In 1842, because of his extensive interests in these real estate developments, he maintained a town house on Clinton Place at 8th Street.
At about this time, speculation in western lands began in New York, since the opening of the Erie Canal a few years before had given a great impetus to western migration.  Dr. McVickar and several of his wealthy friends made extensive wildcat speculations in the neighborhoods of St. Joseph and Monroe, Michigan.  Dr. McVickar also bought large tracts of land near Portage, Wisconsin.  He became interested in developing these land speculations, so he decided to go west.  At the urging of an old friend named William B. Ogden, he planned to live near him in Chicago.
A trip of two months in 1846 took him up the Hudson River, through the Erie Canal, and by sailing ship through Lake Erie, Lake Huron, and Lake Michigan.  Dr. McVickar and his family then settled in Milwaukee rather than in Chicago; he had found the latter mired in mud.  He had been impressed with the high bluffs and river valleys when the ship stopped briefly in Milwaukee.  He purchased an entire city block south of Juneau Avenue between Cass and Van Buren streets.  As it turned out, he lost heavily in his land speculations in Michigan and Wisconsin, and soon gave up his plan to develop towns in the West.  However, he was still wealthy, and did not again establish again a medical practice; he did act as a consultant to other doctors for many years in Milwaukee on serious cases, when they needed his expert advice.
One year after settling in Milwaukee, he was a delegate in 1847 from St. Paul's Episcopal Church at the primary convention to establish a diocese.  He was appointed by Bishop Kemper as one of a committee of five to report on a Constitution and Canons for the diocese.  For the next 23 years Bishop Kemper has no wiser counselor than Dr. McVickar.  From 1853 until 1862, he was senior warden of St. Paul's Church.  He was influential in the purchase of land and establishment of St. Paul's Cemetery, now named Forest Home Cemetery.  He resumed his great interest in horticulture, and had extensive gardens and orchards, employing three gardeners.  He was noted for the great variety and beauty of his roses.
Benjamin McVickar was five feet ten inches in height, and slight of stature.  He had dark hair, beautiful brown eyes, and a complexion that all his family was noted for.  He was a man of rare culture, and was deeply religious as well as very generous.  Both he and his brother, Rev. John McVickar, were staunch supporters of Bishop Kemper's work in establishing the Episcopal Church in the West.  He wrote charming poetry, and had a deep sense of humor.  In social life he was a refined, courtly gentleman, with an urbanity, and a dignity of manner and character that inspired affection and respect, while it repelled familiarity or rudeness.  He was just and generous in his dealings, moderate in his censure, and charitable in his judgments.  He was universally respected and esteemed, and tenderly loved by his close family and friends.  Though never entering public life, he exercised a strong influence for good in the communities in which he lived.  In politics he was a whig, and afterwards a republican.  He gave freely of his substance to the support of Abraham Lincoln during the Civil War, though his fortune was much impaired.  He was never an abolitionist; but when the South sought to destroy the nation, he approved of President Lincoln's emancipation proclamation.
One daughter, Isaphene, died in May of 1848 at the age of thirteen. Cornelia married in 1853, to A. Galbraith Miller, an attorney in Milwaukee.  They had five children.  Anne married in 1854 Robert McCarter, and was widowed early in her married life.  They had one daughter, Isaphene, who married a Mr. Eaton and was also soon widowed. She married second a Mr. Pond, an Englishman.  After his death, she lived in Bournemouth, England, where I visited her in 1926, and again in 1931 with my wife.  My grandmother, Maria Elizabeth, married Loyal Root Durand in 1866.  John Lawrence, the only son of Dr. and Mrs. McVickar, was a man of rather poor health, a scholarly gentleman who should have been a professor.  He was never successful in the lumbering or printing businesses his father established him in.  He married Harriet Nazro in 1853.  They had two children, both of whom died young.  He died in 1877 at the age of 49.  Dr. Benjmin McVickar's wife died in 1868.
Dr. McVickar at the age of 75 became almost blind, but bore it with great fortitude.  He died May 4, 1883 at the age of 84, and was buried in the McVickar family lot in Forest Home Cemetery in Milwaukee on May 7, 1883.
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Isaphene Catherine LAWRENCE
Birth:
5 Oct 1806
New York, Ny
Death:
18 Sep 1868
Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi
Sources:
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S.R. Durand:
Isaphene Catherine Lawrence, one of my great-grandmothers, was born October 5, 1805 at her parents' residence at 480 Broadway, in New York City.  She was the fourth of seven children of Isaac and Cornelia Ann (Beach) Lawrence.  She spent her girlhood in New York and at her parents' country estate in Newtown, Long Island (now part of Bayside, Queens). She had one brother and five sisters.  Walter Barrett, in his 1868 book The Old Merchants of New York relates that the family went to St. Thomas's Episcopal Church,  on the corner of Broadway and Houston streets, in its palmy days, when Dr. Hawks preached there, and there never lived in this city such a family of beautiful daughters. They were the prettiest girls in the city (pp. 66-67).  Among mementos of the family I have an invitation to Miss Lawrence to attend a Yale College Ball in New York on September 11, 1822, and one from 1824 to attend the Lafayette Ball in Philadelphia, honoring General Lafayette.
Isaphene Lawrence was married to Dr. Benjamin Moore McVickar on November 12, 1825, in the home of her parents, which was then at 498 Broadway.  I know nothing about her life in New York, other than that she was active in charitable work with her mother.  After moving to Milwaukee in 1846, she was one of the women who organized the Milwaukee Orphan Asylum, and she was treasurer of this institution from 1850 until 1865. A resolution of the Board of the Orphan Asylum dated June 6, 1865 reads: 'Whereas the failing health of Mrs. I. McVickar, the beloved Treasurer of Milwaukee Orphan Asylum, has prompted her to resign the office so faithfully held for fifteen years, therefore resolved that the resignation of Mrs. I. McVickar be accepted with deep regret, and earnest wish that she may soon be restored to her sphere of influence in this institution of her adoption, and resolved that with one voice the Associated Managers would give full assurance to the retiring Treasurer, of their appreciation of her assiduous labors, and their entire confidence in the abiding feeling that the Board can ill afford to lose one whose fidelity and zeal have largely contributed to the prosperity and permanence of this institution.  In behalf of the Managers, Mrs. D. Newhall, Corresponding Secretary, Milwaukee Orphan Asylum, June 6, 1865.'
A clipping from an old newspaper reads: 'During the anxious days that preceded the bombardment of Fort Sumter, when patriotic feeling ran high through Milwaukee, the display of flags and bunting in the city was so great that the small stock was soon exhausted, and those that did not buy early had to make their own or go without.  It was during this flag famine that Mrs. McVickar, the wife of Dr. Benjamin McVickar, sat down in the old home on Van Buren Street and assisted by her three daughters made and American flag.  On the day that the guns of Fort Sumter told the north that a war was raging, the doctor cut a sapling in his yard, and tacking the flag to it, raised it from the roof of his house.  After every battle of the war, the flag waved from the roof of the old house, and after Appomattox sent its message of peace over the land, the old flag, now faded and tattered, was laid away in the garrett.'
Isaphene (Lawrence) McVickar was apparently in poor health the last three years of her life.  She died September 18, 1868, and was buriedin the McVickar family lot in Forest Home Cemetery in Milwaukee.  A lovely portrait by Henry Inman of Isaphene (Lawrence) McVickar as a young girl is in the possession of [the Durand family].
An obituary said of her that 'she was nurtured in the highest, most polished and refined society of the city of New York.  She brought hither [to Milwaukee] her engaging manners and her good breeding, and she has done her share in forming those gentle and lady-like manners which have given such a charm to Milwaukee female society.  She was a woman of excellent common sense, and wass most active in promoting all the useful charities of the city, and it is not too much to say that she is one of the most devoted and and most influential of those noble women who have done so much to build up the Protestant Orphan Asylum.  Whether as a wife or a mother or a devoted member of the Episcopal church, to which she was ardently attached, she was most exemplary in the performance of her duties.  Of later years, her ill health had confined her much to her home, and to that home the loss will be felt as one of those crushing blows which only God can assuage.'
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John Lawrence MCVICKAR
Birth:
12 Nov 1827
New York, Ny
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Cornelia Augusta MCVICKAR
Birth:
19 Jun 1829
New York, Ny
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3
Birth:
7 May 1832
New York, Ny
Death:
1915
Eastbourne, England
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Isaphene MCVICKAR
Birth:
27 Sep 1834
New York, Ny
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5
Birth:
3 Nov 1838
New York, Ny
Death:
29 Jan 1920
Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi
Marr:
3 Sep 1866
Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi 
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My father's mother was born on November 2, 1838 in New York City, the fifth and youngest child of Dr. Benjamin Moore McVickar and Isaphene Catherine (Lawrence) McVickar.  As a small child, she lived in Westchester County on her parents' estate, and in their New York City home.  Both her mother and father had several married brothers and sisters, and my grandmother had many close friends among the many cousins of her age; these friendships she kept up all her life.  When she was only 8 years old, in 1846, the family moved to Milwaukee, Wisconsin.
When I was young, my grandmother often told me about large Indian encampments that arose each year in Milwaukee, at what is now the vicinity of Juneau Avenue and Milwaukee Street - only a short distance from her home.  She told me, too, about the hard work that young ladies of her age did during the Civil War, making bandages and knitting scarves for soldiers.  Along with other young ladies, she visited encampments of the Union army to distribute packages of special food and clothing.  She was also one of a group of ladies who organized a soldiers' hospital. After the war, this hospital became a home for disabled veterans, and is still a veterans' home at Wood, Wisconsin, a suburb of Milwaukee.
My grandmother was a very handsome young lady, quite tall and slim, with dark hair and eyes.  She and her two older sisters, Cornelia and Anna, were considered to be among the few most cultured and lovely young ladies in Milwaukee.
My grandmother was married to Loyal Root Durand on September 3, 1866 in St. Paul's Episcopal Church.  My father was born March 31, 1868, and his brother, Samuel Benjamin Durand, was born August 21, 1870.  My grandfather died on November 19, 1871.  He had only recently purchased a home for his family, but after his death my grandmother sold it.  She instead built a house facing Cass Street, in back of her father's house, which faced Van Buren Street and lay at the southeast corner of Van Buren Street and Juneau Avenue.  Her mother had died on September 18, 1868; so it must have been nice for her father, a widower living with servants in a large mansion, to have a daughter and two small grandsons next door.
Along with her father, my grandmother was very active in the work of St. Paul's Episcopal Church and the diocese of Milwaukee.  She was one of the founders of St. John's Episcopal Home for the Aged and of the Women's Club of Wisconsin, and served on the governing boards of these organizations for many years.  She entrusted for investment her inheritance from her husband of $60,000 in life insurance to his younger brother, William Timothy Durand, who made some land speculations without success.  The result was that most of the money was gone by the time my father and his brother had finished their college educations at the University of Wisconsin.
When Dad's brother entered the University of Wisconsin in 1887, his mother gave up her home in Milwaukee and bought a home at the bend on Langdon Street in Madison.  This enabled her to economize somewhat in providing college educations for her two sons, as well as providing a home for them during their university years.  Her home became a meeting place for the Sigma Chis, and a place where many parties and dances were held. She spent summers with her two sons at Nashotah Lake, renting a home on the Nashotah Seminary grounds.
In 1900, my father's brother, Samuel Benjamin Durand, died at the age of 30 in Denver.  He had been afflicted with lung trouble from silicosis, and unknown disease in those days.  My grandmother and his wife were with him for many months during his attempt to recuperate in Denver, and it must have been very sad for my grandmother to have lost a son of about the same age as that of her husband at his death.
My grandmother came to live with us when we moved into the Lake Drive home [in 1906], and Dad became her sole support. Each summer from the time I was about 7 until about 16 years of age, we spent several weeks in the country in cottages rented on one of the lakes west of Milwaukee...my father spent the week in Milwaukee, where his mother with the servants maintained our home.  All of her life after her husband's death, she wore only black mourning clothes.  However, until very old age and very poor health, she was always a cheerful and pleasant person.  She became quite deaf in the last years of her life.
Among my earliest remembrances of my grandmother were the times she took me and my brother on the hour-long streetcar ride to the Soldiers' Home.  These were exciting adventures for us, because we could stand on the streetcar alongside the motorman and pretend we were helping operate it.  While my grandmother was having tea with friends including Mrs. Sharp, the wife of the commander of the home, General Sharp, we wandered about talking to old Civil War soldiers and hearing accounts from them of battles they had fought in.
My grandmother had friends come in for tea most every afternoon when we were very young.  We were allowed to come in for a cookie or a small piece of cake, and very weak tea with lots of warm milk.  Tea, when guests were invited, was served in what we called the reception room instead of in the large parlor.  This room was sort of considered my grandmother's special room until my parents purchased a piano and Victrola, when we called it the music room.
When we were very young, my grandmother spent part of each year visiting relatives in the East.  She had several very wealthy Lawrence and McVickar cousins who had summer homes at Newport, Rhode Island and Bar Harbor, Maine.  She also visited her Hillhouse cousins in New Haven and her Wells cousins in upstate New York, at Constableville. And after 1910, when my father's aunts Jane and Louise Durand left Milwaukee to live with their widowed younger sister Hannah (Durand) Gould, she would stop in to see them in Rochester, New York, too.
Occasionally my grandmother would go on Sunday picnics with us, but she never seemed to belong in the country; with her long black dress, black coat, and black bonnet tied under her chin, she seemed ill-suited to the gaiety of a picnic.  Sometimes we would leave her for most of the day to visit her old friends in their country homes, returning late in the afternoon to pick her up.
Much of the beautiful antique Lawrence and McVickar furniture, silverware, and china that graced our home had been inherited by my grandmother from her parents.  Some of it she purchased from her sister Anna (Mrs. McCarter), at a time just before World War I when this widowed sister left the United States to make her home in Eastbourne, England, with her only daughter (Mrs. William Pond).  This sister died in a bombing raid by zeppelins on Eastbourne in 1915. Many of the books in the large built-in bookcases on either side of the fireplace in our parlor were inherited by my grandmother from her father.
My grandmother was named for her mother's sister, Maria Elizabeth, who married the Right Reverend William I. Kip, who from 1853 until 1893 was the Episcopal Bishop of California.  He was my grandmother's godfather, and I have some letters and some books that he authored and sent to her.  One outstanding characteristic of my grandmother was her intense love and devotion to her family, relatives, and friends.  She was truly a lady of the highest culture of her day and age.  She died at the age of 82, on January 29, 1920.
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Dr. Benjamin Moore McVickar - Isaphene Catherine Lawrence

Dr. Benjamin Moore McVickar was born at New York, Ny 12 Nov 1799.

He married Isaphene Catherine Lawrence 12 Nov 1825 at New York, Ny . Isaphene Catherine Lawrence was born at New York, Ny 5 Oct 1806 daughter of Isaac Lawrence and Cornelia Ann Beach .

They were the parents of 5 children:
John Lawrence McVickar born 12 Nov 1827.
Cornelia Augusta McVickar born 19 Jun 1829.
Anna McVickar born 7 May 1832.
Isaphene McVickar born 27 Sep 1834.
Maria Elizabeth McVickar born 3 Nov 1838.

Dr. Benjamin Moore McVickar died 4 May 1883 at Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi .

Isaphene Catherine Lawrence died 18 Sep 1868 at Milwaukee, Milwaukee Co., Wi .