Dominicus CARTER
Provo Cemetary Sexton Records, p51,ln7
Family Group Sheet for Dominicus Carter, b1806
Patriarchal Blessing of Dominicus Carter
Ancestral File - Version 4.19
Pedigree Resource File
Internet IGI , Jun 2007
SHORT HISTORY OF DOMINICUS CARTER: Someone wisecracked when asked about Dominicus Carter, "Oh You mean the fellow with the nine wives and forty-nine kids." This is not quite true since he had one less wife and may have had one or two more children. From this you know that he was quite a man to be able to support and live somewhat amiably with that many women. Dominicus was born and lived in Maine until he was 28 years old. He was born in Scarborough in 1806, but in 1810 his family moved to Newry (or Nebrors). Being in a family of 11 children made it necessary for all to work, with little time for formal education. Besides helping with the farming at home he learned the blacksmithing trade, never realizing how useful this would make him. He married Lydia Smith in 1828. Four children were born to them there and 2 were added in Ohio before Lydia's death in Missouri. When John Boynton and Daniel Bean, the "Mormon" missionaries, came in 1834, Dominicus and Lydia embraced the LDS gospel and never looked back. Dominicus's mother, Hannah Libby, also joined as did 5 more of her sons and 2 of her daughters. John, the father, 1 son and 2 daughters never joined. However, John did move west to Ohio and Illinois with the majority of his family, but that was enough and he was left behind in Illinois when the saints left Nauvoo for Winter Quarters and Salt Lake City (SLC). Dominicus was at the forefront of the Mormon movement. He was taught by the Prophet Joseph Smith, ordained an Elder by David W. Patton, a Seventy by Joseph Young, Sr. and a High Priest by Joseph Smith, Jr. His patriarchal blessing was under the hands of Joseph Smith, Sr. He was part of the Kirtland Camp that traveled from Ohio to Far West Missouri, only to be driven out of that state in 1838-9. He was one of the 244 elders who volunteered to take the views of Joseph Smith on the powers of government to the states. He served a proselyting mission along the rivers of Missouri, Pennsylvania and Wisconson. He helped build the Nauvoo Temple. He was one in whom the Prophet confided the principle of plural marriage. Dominicus was a true believer and was not swayed even when the missionary that baptized him raged against Joseph Smith and the Church. After Lydia died in 1838 near Far West, Dominicus married a 16 year old named Sophronia Babcock the same year. About a year later he married Sylvia Meacham, an older woman of 19 years; and in 1844, at Nauvoo, he married Mary Durfee, a teen of 14. These three accompanied Dominicus when he left Nauvoo for Winter Quarters, Nebraska. Sophronia died there of child birth complications. Dominicus was of great help in the treck west. His skills as a wagon maker and horse shoer came in very useful. This production was needed so very badly that Dominicus was asked to remain in Winter Quarters another 4 years before moving west in 1851. When they arrived in Salt Lake City Sylvia had enough of pologamy and refused to follow Dominicus to Provo where he would build his home and make his living the rest of his life. Sylvia later married John Snyder, a widower. Dominicus married again, Polly Minor, a niece of Mary's, in 1852. She was 19. Two years later he married Caroline Hubbard, a 23 year old, but this marriage lasted only 7 years. Dominicus married his last wife, Frances Nash, at the age of 51 - she was 21, 30 years his junior. His wives and number of children follow: Lydia Smith 21 May 1828 6 children Sophronia Babcock Nov 1838 1 child that died early Sylvia Ameret Meacham 28 Mar 1839 2 children separated Mary Durfee 2 Jan 1844 13 children Polly Minor 9 Oct 1851 9 children Elizabeth Brown 30 Jun 1852 8 children Caroline Hubbard 27 Oct 1854 2 children separated Frances Nash 6 Jan 1857 8 children Dominicus was an active community member and developer in the Provo community. He was a councelor to George A. Smith in the new Utah Stake in 1852. He was a probate judge for 4 years and filled a vacancy on the Provo City Council. He organized and played in the Provo Martial Band. He continued his blacksmith work in addition to farming. There are many funny stories about Dominicus and his wives but for these the reader is referred to, "Carter Pioneers of Provo Utah," by Arthur D. Coleman. Dominicus died at age 78. His posterity accounted for much of the afore mentioned book. Poly Minor wrote of her husband, Dominicus: "I was his fifth wife and lived peaceable in one house at Provo with three of his other wives for eleven years and enjoyed myself first rate. My husband farmed and raised lots of grain; worked at his trade of blacksmithing; paid his tithing; and helped build up the kingdom of our God on this earth." Elizabeth Brown wrote: "My husband is a staunch L.D.S. and myself as well... We have attempted to teach our children the principles of the Gospel and rear them up in the ways that their parents have marked out for them." The wives lived to enjoy separate houses. For those who worry about the sealed to John Snyder, vrs. the biological line, should know that Sylvia has been sealed to Dominicus at least 19 times. But, she chose in life to be sealed to John Snyder. SCJ
NAME: MEACHAM aka MECHAM SHORT HISTORY OF SYLVIA AMERET MEACHAM (MECHAM): Sylvia has many name variations. Frequent spellings of her 2nd name are: Ameret, Amaret, Amaretta, Ameretta. These can be found within the same document. Meacham also has many spellings, but the most used are Meacham and Mecham. Sometimes both spellings are found in the same family. For example, when J. Leo Meacham died in 1998 his casket-bearing brothers' surnames were Mecham. Both spellings are pronounced the same. This genealogical record has stuck with the older spelling; viz. Meacham. The Meachams were some of the first settlers in America, with Jeremiah (b1613) arriving from Somersetshire, England before 1640. Sylvia's ancestors settled in Salem, Essex, Massachusetts and lived there until about 1705 when Jeremiah (a son b1644) moved to Windham, Connecticut. Sometime before 1735 Samuel (a son b1712) moved to Norwich, Conn. His son, also named Samuel (b 1739) moved to Canaan, New Hampshire before his first child was born in 1763. The grandfather of Sylvia, and son of Samuel, Dr. Thomas (b1771), moved to Fletcher, Vermont. Sylvia's father, Steven Peabody (b1797) moved to Hopkinton, New York. This is where Sylvia was born in 1820, and where she was living when her family was converted to Mornomism (LDS Church) by an Uncle Joseph Meacham about 1836-9. They moved to Springfield, Missouri, where she met and married Dominicus Carter in 1839. Sylvia's mother, Dorothy Ransom, also had a long line of progenitors who came to America from England early in the 17th century and lived in Vermont and Connecticut. Sylvia's story becomes woven into that of Dominicus; John Snyder, her second husband; and Erastus, her first child, so a more full account is found in their histories. This period of time must have been horrible for Sylvia. She was 19 when she became the 3rd wife of Dominicus. His second wife was only 16 or 17 and was struggling with the care for the 5 living children of Dominicus's first wife, Lydia, who died in Missouri when the saints were driven out. There could have been only a few good years before they were again forced to leave Nauvoo for Winter Quarters. But, before leaving Sylvia gave birth to Erastus Francis in 1843 and Isaac Morley in 1845. Isaac died in infancy. In 1844 Dominicus took a 4th wife, 14 year old Mary Durfee. Can you imagine the weight of all the commotion and responsibility on Sylvia? In addition Dominicus was very busy taking care of others and making wagons for the treck west. Sophronia, Dominicus's second wife, died near Winter Quarters giving birth to their first child that also died. Further, Dominicus's 65 year old mother was living with them and joined them on the treck west. Dominicus's younger brother, Richard, who joined the Mormon Battalion, left a wife and two children to be helped. He died in 1846 and his wife also died of Smallpox in 1852 before leaving Winter Quarters. It does not seem unreasonable or a sign of weakness for Sylvia to elect to stay in Salt Lake City with Erastus and not follow Dominicus to Provo. Dominicus built her a house and there has not been anything written to indicate bitterness in the separation. Dominicus was a mild and caring man and if there were neglect it was because he was trying to do too much for others. He practiced pologomy because he thought it was the right thing to do. John Snyder came on the scene in 1854-5 as a 4-year widower after 30 years of marriage. He had been faithful in the church - he was baptized in 1836 by Parley P. Pratt while in Canada where John Taylor lived. He suffered all of the trials associated with the Church's early beginnings and treck west. He was a brick mason and house builder and could furnish a good home for Erastus who was about 12 years old. Sylvia was 35 years old and John was 56. They married in 1855 and were sealed in the EHOUS in 1867. Sylvia gave birth to 2 more children, Martin Henry in 1959 and John Hyrum in 1960. John, Sr. was a good father to Erastus and taught him his trade of building houses. There has been no record found to indicate that Erastus was adopted by John, but they were sealed together in 1978. If this troubles those who want their sealed line to follow biologically know that Erastus has been sealed to Dominicus at least 8 times. After John, Sr. died in 1875 he was buried in the family plot in Salt Lake City. Sylvia lived alone as a widow in SLC for about 15 years before she moved to Park Valley, Utah, to be with her son Erastus. She died there in 1894. Her body was buried in the Snyder plot in SLC beside her husband John. The Meachams and the Carters have been friends since the Church brought them together in its early history. When Erastus Carter and Alice Green moved to Park Valley Erastus Darwin Mecham, Sylvia's brother, was bishop (1879-92). They lived just east of them. The next bishop was William Henry Mecham, a son of Erastus Mecham, who served until 1899. John (or Jack) Hyrum Mecham, another son of Erastus, and his wife Annie Miller continued to live in Park Valley for many years and are buried there. There children; J. Leo, Bill, May, Rich, Don and Chester are remembered by the Carters who grew up in Park Valley during the 1925-50 period. Many of the Meacham children worked for John Carter. They related well with other people. SCJ RECORD: 1. Salt Lake City Cemetary Sexton Records, Interment #7097. 2. Hyrum Smith, Patriarchal Blessing of Sylvis Ameret Meacham, Alfa Jean Carter, Centerville, UT. 3. Endowment House Records, Birth, endowment, marriage, Family History Library-SLC, 35 N West Temple Street, Salt Lake City, UT 84150.
SHORT HISTORY OF ERASTUS FRANCIS CARTER: Erastus was born to Dominicus Carter and Sylvia Ameret Meacham in Adams County, Illinois, near Quincy in 1843. Sylvia was the 3rd wife of Dominicus. Lydia, his 1nd wife died after 10 years of marriage during the expulsion of the "Mormons" from Missouri in 1838. Dominicus, in the same year, then married Sophronia, a 16 year old girl whose parents are believed also to have died in Missouri from persecution. A year later Dominicus and Sylvia became one of the first couples to embrace pologamy. Before leaving the Nauvoo area Dominicus took another wife, Mary Durfee, and another son, Isaac Morley, was born to Sylvia in 1845. Isaac died soon after birth. Little is known about just when they left Nauvoo or of their treck across Iowa, but in 1847, near Winter Quarters, Sophronia died of birth complications, leaving Sylvia as Dominicus's oldest living wife. Dominicus stayed in Winter Quarters until 1851 to help build wagons for the treck to Utah. By the time Dominicus and Sylvia reached Utah she was convinced pologamy was not for her and she stayed in Salt Lake City when Dominicus and Mary moved south to Provo. Dominicus must have been so upset he married another wife, Polly Minor, that fall. Erastus was about 8 years old and this is the last he would spend meaningful time with his biological father, as Sylvia would divorce Dominicus and marry John Snyder in 1854. John became a widower when his wife of 30 years, Mary Heron, died. John and Mary had 3 children but they were old enough to have left home. John was about 56 years old and Sylvia 35 at the time of their marriage. Their marriage was sealed in the EHOUS 13 years later so it must have been a relationship more to Sylvia's liking. Sylvia and John had 2 children, Martin Henry and John Hyrum, so Erastus had younger half-brothers to play with. John was a good man and father to Erastus. He was a brick mason by trade and taught Erastus much about carpentry. His association with the LDS Church went back to Kirtland, Ohio, days and he was a faithful member. Erastus helped build many homes in Salt Lake City. Erastus was well educated for his time and became a bodyguard to Brigham Young and Chief of Police. He was a good singer and enjoyed acting. Erastus was sealed to John Snyder by proxy in 1978. Erastus married Alice Elizabeth Green in 1870 in the EHOUS at the age of 27 - Alice was 18. The story is that Alice was living with the Neal family and Erastus was interested in one of their daughters, but Alice also caught his eye. She was somewhat of an orphan from England and was doing domestic work. It is reported that Erastus in jest put a chicken's wishbone above the door and said that the first of the girls to come through the door would be his wife. Alice beat it out the kitchen door to come first through the door under the wishbone. Erastus and Alice first lived in Salt Lake City where Erastus continued his trades. William was born to them there in 1871. Before Sylvia's birth in 1874 they moved to Lake Town on the shores of Bear Lake for about 5 years where Sylvia, Alice and John were born. Erastus was Rich County Sheriff and captured one of the county bad guys. They then moved back to Salt Lake City for another 4-5 years and Erastus worked at the Davis and Howell foundry. Anne and Mary joined the family. Alice would move one more time, to Park Valley, Utah, (1884) where Erastus heard there was squatter's land available. They located on the upper string 1 mile north and 3/4 mile west of the store on 320 acres. Erastus had sent money ahead to buy cattle but on arrival there was no cattle or money. Their first home was a 1-room cabin with a dirt floor and the same on the roof. The flies were so thick that they would scorch their wings with a torch and sweep them up by the bucketfulls. Things were very difficult - the children went bare foot in the summer and wrapped sacks around their feet in the winter to keep warm. This was pioneering at its worst, but they were tough and hung together. Disease, now not experienced, was wild then. Erastus survived typhoid, but when diptheria struck and Alice became so very sick it was necessary for them to return temporarily to Salt Lake City. When they came back to Park Valley a merchant in Kelton, Henry Canote, gave Erastus credit for necessary food and clothing, saying he could trust him. Abe Chadwick, a partner in farming, helped some with a little milk for their bread. It was not crickets, but rabbits that ate their crops and it would be another 2 years before they would have a harvest. But, things did get better. Five more children came to live with them in Park Valley; Francis, Walter, Irwin, Clara and Raymond, bringing the total to 11. Raymond lived only about 3 years and Walter died at age 16. Erastus was community and civic minded and did much to bring education and culture to Park Valley. As a trustee he helped build the first school house, which also served as a church meeting house. He was justice of the peace and constable, doing business for the whole community. Marriages were performed in their home with Alice furnishing refreshments. She was a wonderful hostess. He not only built a better home for himself with sheds for his animals and equipment but helped others in the Valley improve their farms. He dug a well, planted shade trees and a fruit orchard. He helped the young, and not so young, people find entertainment with dances and ball games. About 1892 Sylvia came to live with Erastus and Alice, and two more rooms were added to the house. It was here that she died in 1894. Her brother, Erastus Darwin (1st bishop of PV), lived just 3/4 mile east, and her nephew, William Henry, was bishop. When Sylvia died she left Erastus a little money and he went into the sheep business. The rooms later were used as temporary quarters for newlyweds. It was downhill for Erastus beginning in 1910 when he got gangrene in one of his feet. A special train was sent from Ogden to take him to a docter. Even though they tried to save his leg it was necessary to amputate it above the knee. He recovered but it was necessary for him to walk on crutches. After about two years he died of a stroke at age 69. The leg was dug up from the family plot and buried with him. Alice lived another 10 years. Erastus was excommunicated from the church for petty reasons. This had a negative influence on his children, particularly his sons. It seems he had taken food and other goods to help a couple of widows in the Valley without consulting the bishop, who thought these should come through the Tithing Office or Bishop's Storehouse. Erastus felt it was none of his business. There may have been other personality and business problems such as water rights and animal trespass. Erastus's baptism and all blessings were restored 3 Dec 1935. SCJ
He married Sylvia Ameret Meacham 28 Mar 1839 at Adams, Illinois . Sylvia Ameret Meacham was born at Hopkinton, St. Lawrence, New York 28 Jul 1820 daughter of Stephen Peabody Meacham and Dorothy Maria Ransom .
They were the parents of 3
children:
Erastus Francis Carter
born 24 Jan 1843.
Isaac Morely Carter
born 2 Jun 1851.
Harriett Carter
born 27 May 1855.
Dominicus Carter died 2 Feb 1884 at Provo, Utah, Utah .
Sylvia Ameret Meacham died 24 May 1894 at Park Valley, Box Elder, Utah .